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Is it true that all men want a woman who looks like an Instagram “model”?

11.06.2025 14:10

Is it true that all men want a woman who looks like an Instagram “model”?

Lastly, attractive women usually take care of themselves. Clothes. Hair. Skin. Fitness. And who doesn't like a partner who CARES about themselves?

However, let's be honest MOST males want slim, curvy, pretty, leggy, toned. They just do.

Yeah you'll get guys with kinks who like old grannies, amputees, or predators who like kids, or men who claim they like obese women. But they are minority

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Why? Porn has a lot to answer for. Porn models are usually slim and toned but have boobs, hips and booty. They have sexy faces. Eyes or lips being important.

No.

I also think beneath the facade of “just looking good” men want arm candy. An attractive woman makes them look attractive

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?